Impossible for Leeds United stars to grasp Istanbul pain but family gathering sent strong message - YEP 6/4/22
Jesse Marsch, his Leeds United squad and most of those who bowed their heads in silence outside Elland Road could not comprehend the pain and injustice still burning in the friends and families of Chris Loftus and Kevin Speight, but they were united in remembrance.
By Graham Smyth
The presence of Marsch, his staff and senior players at
Tuesday's memorial gathering was important, to show those left suffering by the
brutal killings that they are not alone. Even if they did not and cannot ever
fully grasp what the victims' loved ones are still feeling, the team wearing
the colours to which Chris and Kevin belonged did share, for a moment or two,
in the grief.
It was a poignant display of unity from start to finish,
with wreaths and scarves laid by Liam Cooper and his team-mates before Gareth
Senior, a witness to the violence in Istanbul, spoke about the importance of
remembrance and truth.
What was perhaps most endearing about the squad's appearance
was the informal feel to proceedings that began when everyone was ready and
ended when all that needed to be said had been said. Family gatherings are
never slick and at sombre occasions there's often a sweet awkwardness, no one
quite knowing how to be or how to act around people with whom they share a
connection but no real familiarity. So it was at Elland Road. But family
gatherings are genuine and so too was this one.
There was light, in the darkness, with Kalvin Phillips
greeting good-natured ribbing over his choice of footwear with his trademark
grin. Families can still laugh during sadness. There were tears too, men and
women dabbing at their eyes as the emotion became too much to hide or hold in
as Senior spoke to the crowd, his own voice trembling at times.
He did not sugarcoat his message, voicing the hurt caused by
what some perceived to be an inadequate marking of the anniversary by the club
during the Southampton game, lambasting the cowardice of the killers and the
misinformation that seeped out of Instanbul thereafter. All present were left
in no doubt that while anger, sadness and confusion still wreak havoc and
inflict deep wounds, forgetting will never be an option. Families say what they
feel they ought to.
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— Leeds United News (@LeedsUnitedYEP) April 5, 2022
Then there was silence. A moment in which to be one family,
united.
Cooper and many of his team-mates mingled with supporters
afterwards, giving comfort where they could in the form of affection or simply
a minute or two of their time. The skipper would later place money behind the
bar of The Peacock to pay for the assembled mourners' drinks.
"We know how important this is to the whole fanbase,
how it unites the fanbase and how the tragic events were so deeply felt by
everybody at the time and still 22 years later," said CEO Angus Kinnear
after the gathering.
"We've made a commitment that during our custodianship
we'll always take time to remember both gentlemen at this time of year and try
and unite the fanbase in remembering them and the tragic event that happened.
"It was great that Jesse and the whole squad agreed to
make it a team event and come down to lay flowers and scarves outside the
plaque at Elland Road. I think that shows how seriously we take our commitment
to making sure their memories aren't forgotten."
Kinnear believes it's difficult for anyone who wasn't
involved 22 years ago to fully grasp what those who were have had to go
through, so the club's role is to let them express it themselves, as was the
case on Tuesday afternoon.
"It runs so deeply within the club you can understand
the emotion that was felt and all we can do as a club is give them a platform
to share their memories and to speak out against the injustices that
happened," he said.
"Since we've been at the club we've always taken time
to make sure it's remembered. Kalvin came down last year but this time was a
step forward in getting the whole squad to take part.
"The fact they were all prepared to take some time out
of their schedules to come from Thorp Arch to Elland Road and be part of a
moment that was important to the families.
"It was a fitting event and something we want to take
forward as the benchmark of how it should be remembered."
Senior and everyone else impacted by April 5 2000 have no
choice but to remember, no matter how painful the memories are.
"It's always difficult, sometimes it seems like it was
yesterday and sometimes when you reflect on everything that's happened in the
intervening 22 years you realise how long ago it was," he said.
"The events of that night will always have an impact on
everyone who was there but also the people it's impacted back at home, the
friends and family and everyone that knew both the lads. We will never forget
them, we'll always pay our tribute and we've made it quite clear today the club
should never forget them as well. What happened that night is bigger than Leeds
United and bigger than football or anything else."